Why is a person a spiritual babe if they are shocked by people buying pornography being allowed to preach?

Just before being due to get baptized as a Jehovah's Witnesses I was told it was quite common practice for them to buy newspapers which are famous for containing female porn' - which they class as 'just nudes' and it is OK so long as they don't look at the famous porn' page and they are even allowed to be an elder. I was told I was a 'spiritual babe', 'unbalanced', 'mental' and also that if the newspaper contained 'gay images' of course the person would not be allowed to preach if they bought it - even if they didn't look at the porno' page. According to the bible, Jehovah protects women even more so than men - refer Leviticus 18 - the whole chapter talks about not uncovering the nakedness of a long list of women and only refers to gay men not 'lying down together' - hence the fact that it goes further in restricting even just the nakedness of women, don't you think you are ignoring him in being so accepting of female porn'? I know that many of the Jehovah's Witness women don't mind it and will stick up for that, but I only believe in what Jehovah says re. the porn' and don't see why I should have to go in submission to any elder that degrades me. I don't see why I should be called a 'spiritual babe' and was terrified of my son growing up being influenced by such counsel he might get from men who do that.